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MENDING

may we right what's wrong and mend our paths

MENDING is a time for Unitarian Universalists to focus on forgiveness, atonement and work towards repairing relationships. It occurs within the individual, among community members, and stretches to the Sacred found in many forms. A natural outcome of this holy work is the focus on renewing right relations, supporting reparation efforts, and recommitting to covenants agreed to in congregations, small groups, and self.

 

MENDING is observed by some Unitarian Universalists in the second half of September. It is offered as a time to lift up the need for right relations, forgiveness, and the work necessary for reparations. Days with a similar or related focus include Yom Kippur, World Peace Day, Indigenous Peoples' Days, and Juneteenth (?).

 

MENDING lifts up our commitment to doing what is right, owning what needs to be fixed, and acknowledging the sacred importance of repair. As we each mend our personal relationships, so can members of the UU community renew covenants of right relations with one another. 

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so we might reach Beloved Community

​- Focus on self-accountability, loving kindness, acceptance of one another and support for each other in improving our selves and the human condition. Experience the generosity of forgiving, and the gratitude and grace of being forgiven. (third principle, generosity)

- Heed the call for repair, and continue the work for reparations to those who have been harmed. Justice, equity, and compassion in human relations (transformation, second principle)

- Renew congregational, small group, and covenants to self, restore just procedures towards right relations (uu identity, covenant)

Connect & Reflect

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rituals for friends & family

Selections that could be used in small group worship or at home.

songs

​Following are a few options that work well in a Water Communion service, small group worship, or to listen to at home. For a more comprehensive selection, see the UUA list of Songbooks and Hymnals, and the UUA List of Music for Online Worship.  Please respect copyrights and contact individual artists directly for their permission. Besides legal requirements, we ask that you help support the artists.

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  • STLT #1: A Prayer for This House

  • #18 What Wonderous Love

  • STLT#34: Though I May Speak with Bravest Fire

  • STLT #188: Come, Come, Whoever You Are

  • STLT #318: We Would Be One

  • STLT #360: Here We Have Gathered

  • STJ #1031: Filled with Loving Kindness

  • STJ #1037: We Begin Again in Love

  • STJ #1054: Let This Be a House of Peace

Mending Playlist

Mending Playlist

Mending Playlist
#1 May Nothing Evil Cross this Door

#1 May Nothing Evil Cross this Door

01:28
Play Video
What Wonderous Love

What Wonderous Love

04:30
Play Video
STLT #188 Come Come Whoever You Are

STLT #188 Come Come Whoever You Are

02:07
Play Video

Connect & Reflect

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